Tag: selfesteem

  • Becoming A Redcar and Cleveland Ambassador made me increase my confidence to help businesses in the area.

    Becoming A Redcar and Cleveland Ambassador made me increase my confidence to help businesses in the area.

    During the pandemic crisis, Beth Hodgson decided to help business women and shouting about the area. After following some mentoring programmes and becoming an Ambassador for  Redcar and Cleveland, Beth started a successful journey to support herself and others.

    As everybody was affected by the pandemic, Beth was as well from being furlough. But then Beth decided that have to do something about it. With no work, for the first time, Beth had the time to invest in her self.

    “I always struggled with my confidence; sometimes people think I don’t because I do come across in a certain way.”

    “I have joined a few programme, courses and membership routes and been focused on self-love. I feel like a butterfly comes out from the chrysalides.”

    Before the Pandemic, Beth was a marketing manager in the music field.

    “I didn’t want to lose the skills acquired. Then, the mix of I don’t want to lose my skills combined with wanting to do something

    “I started looking at how I could help others, googling tons of pages and researching, when I came across the Redcar and Cleveland Ambassador programme.”

    Redcar&Cleveland Manifesto- Photo courtesy of Beth.

    Beth started working with  Camille Plews, a Redcar based business consultant, working together in the coaching programme and focusing on social media strategy and launch mastery, and self-esteem.

    “I had a look at the programme; I feel like I am in line with that, I love what it is about, so I am going to apply in January.

    But Camille said; No! apply now, get it done before Christmas, and I did.”

    Beth went in touch with Richard Baker, the ambassador project’s marketing manager and leader, who welcome Beth on board.

    “Now I am part of the team, and I feel part of the team. A bit of breaking news, I just had a conversation with Richard Baker, marketing manager and leader of the ambassador project.; all my feature will go on Enjoy Redcar and Cleveland website.

    “Being part of the team is so rewarding, the lovely comments for the work produced. It’s nice to have the recognition from the people that you did a good job.”

    “I want to celebrate women in our area who managing the juggle of running a home, organising child care and now homeschooling.

    Beth is ufficially an Ambassador for Redcar&Cleveland. Photo courtesy of Beth.

    “They juggled many tasks before the pressure of the pandemic, and now our lives have dramatically changed, showing  the determination that women have got.”

    At 7 pm, Beth, every Thursday, is online streaming on Instagram, promoting local businesses and looking forward to expanding her events network.  

    “As soon I ended my first live chat, the endorphins afterwards were unbelievable.

    “Every Thursday, I still get butterflies and a bit of nerve. But I like that because it shows that I still care, and I want to make sure it’s the best possible thing I am putting out for my audience.”

    Beth also runs a Facebook group to help local entrepreneurs get visibility on social media. She aims to develop a community for connecting and support not only women but also anyone who benefits from her freebies free to download.  In her long-term plans, the Professional NLP Coaching qualification to become a coach helps other women boost self-esteem.

    73% of Women Lack of Confidence at work

    A research carried out from My Confidence Matters Ltd about self-confidence in work over 300 women employed across various sectors, including voluntary work, found out that over 73% felt they lacked confidence in the workplace regularly.

    Most of the respondents directed difficulties in interaction with others; Appearing confident but not feeling confident (46%)

    Confidence in public speaking. – Photo by  Leon on Unsplash


    Forgetting what you were going to say or waffling (38%) and having a negative mindset, e.g. why should anyone listen to me? (31%).

     In terms of building confidence, the best service that women would use, according to My Confidence Matter research, two options were the most selected; being part of a community (57%) and one-to-one coaching (48%). However, other options also received a high level of choices, like bitesize online mini-courses (37%), and workshops (37%)

    What is the confidence gap between men and women?

    The graph below shows that women’s confidence increases more with age than men’s. But we need to consider the many opportunities we lose for our career progress in the early years because of fear and lack of confidence. We need to take the courage to take action and become like Beth to succeed in our career aspirations.

    Source: Zenger Folkman’s research
  • Tees Valley Together is a community group that aims to help people to become professionals again.

    Tees Valley Together is a community group that aims to help people to become professionals again.

    The community group based in the  Teeside has helped numerous families over the past few months. Now they have big plans to continue helping people, especially women, to get back into employment. Project Women spoke to Sharlein Smales, the co-founder of The Tees Valley Together.

    Sharlein Smales full interview

    Sharlein Smales works full time in the public sector organisation for South Tees development corporation as a procurement manager to regenerate the old Redcar steelwork.

    She said: “We are a group based on the Tees Valley for vulnerable families across the Tees Valley. We aim to reduce and eradicate poverty across Teesside.”

    About empowering women, Sharlein said, “We have four trustees in the charity, and all are women.

    “It is about pushing and improving their perspective, giving a platform to become professional women again.”

    Sharlein Smales head shot- Photo courtesy of Sharlein S.

    In the Tees Valley, 5,8% of the female population is unemployed according to official labour market statistics

    “There are several vacancies out there; we want to make sure that they are supported for getting back to it.”

    The Jobs and employment support group allows businesses to post available jobs using links to applications already open or add new roles directly. Individuals can search for open positions.  Also, the group is on Facebook visible to the public.

    “We are here to support individuals with job searches, CV writing and mock interviews to build confidence. We are here to help get people back on track.”

    Sharlein Smales sending out your lovely donated Easter Eggs- Photo courtesy of Sharlein S.

    “We will sit together, we will talk to you, and we will go through the requirement to find the best route for where you want to be.

    Thirteen and Step Forward Tees Valley also offer a range of free employability services, and generally working with people been long term unemployment.”

    “For example, when  SSI steelworks closed in 2015, 2.200 people made redundant that day, and some of these people have worked there since they were16.

    “They never had to write a CV before, and they never had an interview before. They don’t have even an idea of where to start the process.”

    Sharlein also said: “Because of the Covid redundancy, there probably needed to do something a bit more proactive with the people who are coming out from work.”

    Tees Valley Together logo –

    The ONS’s labour market overview for January 2021 shows that the aggregate redundancy rate increased to a record high of 14.2 per thousand employees in 2020. The redundancy rate for men (15.5 per thousand) was higher than for women (12.8 per thousand).

    The data show that the administrative and support services industry had the highest redundancy rate (35.8 per thousand) employees, followed by the “other services” industry group, including arts, entertainment and recreation 30.5 per thousand employees

    The arts, entertainment and recreation industry contributed the most to the high redundancy rate in that industry grouping. The lowest redundancy rate was in the public administration, defence and social security industry, at (3.3 per thousand) employees.

    Redundancy rates by education level, UK, not seasonally adjusted, September to November 2020

    Data Source: Coronavirus and redundancies

    “We have a couple of recruitment agencies that they willing to run some sessions for us about helping people- with any professional background.”

    “We need to be able to move to the next level, and we have the people to help them. We will send them to the right place.

    Step forward Tees Valley is the referral partner that we work with. They do training.

    Assist Women– are also our partners, and they help business women, and not only them, to be confident, offering a mentoring program which is focusing on self-esteem.”

    TVT Jobs group on Facebook

    “We aim to be the umbrella for the Tees Valley services, and we will tell you what is available and where an umbrella to bring all together.

    “I’d love to be able to make the difference by getting one person a good job would make me so proud.”

    Tees Valley Together can be contacted through their website and on social media FB, LinkedIn –  Twitter.